It is with great sadness and a heavy heart we share the passing of Lendon Byram '22. Cathedral will have counselors and members of our faith-based community on our athletic/football practice field Sunday at 1 p.m. to gather, grieve, and pray. Rest in peace, Lendon. pic.twitter.com/UcwbAR5UDh— Cathedral HS (@GoCathedral) May 2, 2021
Friends, family and community members gathered multiple times on Sunday to pray and mourn the loss of two students who died in a crash on their way to prom Saturday.
Hamilton Heights senior Kalen Hart and her date, Cathedral High School junior Lendon Byram died in the crash and two other passengers were injured.
The couple had been dating since the beginning of the year.
Lendon’s aunt said he was so happy on Saturday and was looking forward to taking his girlfriend Kalen Hart to prom.
On Saturday morning, Kalen and her friend Alyssa, who was also in the car during the crash, did their makeup at Kalen’s house. Then they left to get their hair done by Lendon’s aunt, who’s a hairstylist. They took photos and visited Kalen’s dad before heading to her mom’s house.
Credit: Jody Conaway
The crash happened at 5:15 p.m. when Kalen, Lendon, and their two friends were driving back to Kalen’s mom’s house.
Kalen was 18-years-old. She would have turned 19 in August.
“She was amazing,” Kalen’s sister Bailey Burnworth said. “She was a great person. She just loved everything. Happy spirit. She would never be sad. She was just amazing.”
Kalen’s mother Jody Conaway described Lendon as “sweet and respectful.” She said he will truly be missed.
“I really felt like he was one of the best things that ever happened to Kalen for a while…we will miss him at our house. We will miss him,” Conaway said.
Cathedral High School held a memorial and prayer service in memory of Lendon on Sunday afternoon. Dozens of people from the school, including classmates, staff, friends, and family, went to the memorial to share memories and mourn his loss.
The Cathedral family has lost three students this year, including Lendon. As a Catholic school, they always try to lean on their faith to get them through difficult times.
Lendon’s friends said you knew it was Lendon when you saw his big hair and famous smirk. They said it was his kindness that made him special.
“My daughter was talking about him this morning and she said ‘he was friends with everybody, mom,'” Cathedral High School Principal Julie Barthel said during Sunday’s memorial. “The other young man that stood up [during the service] said, ‘I didn’t know him that well but every time I saw him, he was kind, inviting and caring.’ So, that’s who Lendon was.”
Credit: WTHRLendon Byram’s friends, family, teachers and community members attend a prayer and memorial service on Sunday, May 2, 2021.
He had a big personality and loved history. He was also a great writer. Lendon’s history teacher described him as a bright and engaged student.
“He would send me emails, random emails about lost Roman legions in Asia and the secession of Napoleon, but that passion… every time you open an email like that, it means so much as a teacher,” his teacher said. “So, I pray that we all find that as we move forward in life, we touch people as Lendon has touched us.”
Lendon had recently been inducted into the National Honor Society and he qualified for a national tournament as part of his school’s speech and debate team.
“Our speech and debate team is just broken without him,” Barthel said. “He was such a force. Not only did well but was a mentor to our younger students. His family and coach were so proud of him that he just qualified for nationals.”